When i feel like i have problems, i talk to someone else about theirs and mine seem small in comparison.
Affirmations are statements that we make to ourselves. They can be either positive affirmations or negative ones. They can be either deliberate, or automatic. Each of us already uses these statements in our daily lives, probably without understanding their full power. For example, how many times, in your goal setting, have you said to yourself “I can do this!” This is an example of a way that positive affirmations are used positively and to inspire confidence.
What is important to understand about these powerful statements is that we eventually will end up believing them. They wear a groove in our thinking, and consequently our decisions, followed by our behavior and become a solid part of our belief system..
Affirmations work by speaking to your subconscious mind, continuously, until a belief is accepted. Our subconscious mind is much like a computer, in that it does not discriminate information, it simply processes it. This is why we must be careful what our conscious tells our subconscious.
Our subconscious mind contains our core belief system, which we have taught it. And, it daily assimilates information that is in agreement with its existing belief system, reinforcing it. It also rejects information that does not support what it already believes. However, through a deliberate choice, we can change the programming of our subconscious mind. This takes some effort, and a commitment to continually override the subconscious with positive affirmations, until a new belief is adopted...
The fact that you can teach your mind and soul to believe something is established. We all use affirmations, whether consciously or unconsciously, to back up our belief system in every area of our lives. But, what is the best method to actively use positive affirmations to transform a part of, or even the entirety, of our lives?
Because positive affirmations are meant to override your existing subconscious beliefs and change them, initially you will find your mind more receptive at night. Your motivational quotes will reach their destination much more quickly when your mind is still and undistracted, much the same way you can cruise down the highway at night when there is no traffic..
So you have made the big decision to start using positive affirmations to change something in your life, perhaps a fear that limits you, or to upgrade to a healthier lifestyle. Good for you! You have done something wonderful for yourself! The question you have now is “when will I see results?” That’s a great question, and it’s only natural to wonder.
Many affirmation experts will tell you that it takes only 21 days, or three weeks before you start to see results and improvement through your positive affirmations. We have not necessarily seen this bench mark to be accurate. In our experience, it can take two days, four days, ten days or even 60 days to see the results you want to see...